Autistic Teen Speaks Out for Those with Asperger's
After hearing media outlets report that the Sandy Hook Elementary shooter may have suffered from Asperger's Syndrome, Timmy Aquilino retreated to his room to write a letter.
After reports that the “bad guy” in the Connecticut shooting may have had Asperger’s Syndrome, Timmy Aquilino, a teenager with autism in Edgewater, went to his bedroom and closed the door.
He didn’t come out for two hours, his mother said.
Timmy suffers from Asperger’s Syndrome. When he returned from his bedroom, he asked his mother Polly Aquilino to share his message on Facebook. So, that’s what she did.
Four shares, 28 "likes" and 27 comments later, Timmy’s message to the world—specifically about people with Asperger’s—warmed the hearts of people throughout Anne Arundel County.
“Maybe these words are his way of responding to this tragedy or just maybe he is absolutely correct … Either way I love my son and am proud of his words,” Polly Aquilino posted on Facebook along with her son’s letter.
Media outlets throughout the country featured pundits and columnists who debated any possible connection between autism and violence. However in his the letter, Timmy pleads with people to not lump himself or others with autism into the same category as Adam Lanza—the 20-year-old man who killed 26 people at Sandy Hook Elementary last week.
The local teen graduates from Kenney Krieger High in Baltimore in June 2014, and hopes to attend Anne Arundel Community College, pursuing a career in music, Aquilino told Patch.
“More than anything, he really wants to spread the word that peple with Asperger’s are wonderful, fantastic people and the worlds needs to know that,” she added.
Read our transcribed version of Timmy’s letter to the community. No edits were made to the message, and the original letter can be seen posted in our photos to the right.
It is said that people with Aspberger’s Syndrome do not have emotions or any soul, and that people who have this disorder are considered dangerous. However, this is completely false.
My name is Timothy, and I have autism. One thing I have to say is that people with autism and Aspberger’s are not violent and a threat to other people. Instead, these people can be very loving, and they can feel anger, sadness, and happiness. Having said this, it is not fair to say this is to anybody with these disorders.
I heard that a 20-year-old man shot about 20 elementary school children, in which he had Aspberger’s Syndrome, but not all people with Asperger’s are like that.
Kids with this disability are very kind, and they are not numb to everything. They have very good hearts, and those children are very thoughtful.
I think that it is terrible that the man who killed all of the innocent children in the school where this recent incident took place doesn’t know how to treat people nicely, but just remember that even though some people in the world have autism and/or Asperger’s Syndrome, they can be just as nice as people who don’t have these two handicaps.
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Maryann
2:16 pm on Thursday, December 20, 2012
Thank you, Timmy. Beautifully said. You're an inspiration.
Lori Scott
3:01 pm on Thursday, December 20, 2012
Rock on. So true!! Keep smiling Timothy! Lori
john ammann jr
10:05 pm on Thursday, December 20, 2012
Timothy is a inspiration . No two ppl are alike and shouldnt be labled because of one persons actions regardless of the condition they have ect . I hope Timothy continues to do great things and succeed in whatever he chooses
Ida Craft
10:05 pm on Thursday, December 20, 2012
Great Job Timmy!! We need more people to speak out!!!!
Becky Miller
12:30 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012
Timmy, knowing you I know this is true, You are a big hearted young man, with a heart of gold! Continue always to make your Gramma and Grandpa proud, which I know they are.
Leslie Amos
4:26 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012
Very intelligent words from a very intelligent young gentleman.Keep on smiling Timmy,
Vicky Nicoletti
4:26 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012
thank u so much 4 ur letter i hope it explains 2 people who stereotype people on the spectrum what aspergers is my grandson has aspergers and he is kind loving sensative and an amazing child such as your self
meredith thackston
11:49 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012
Beautifully written. My brother had Aspergers and was a wonderful, caring person. People are looking for something to blame, and this is the prejudice they chose. Timmy, you are very brave to speak up. Kudos to you, and to your parents for making your letter public. Thank you.
Kevin Williams
1:53 pm on Saturday, December 22, 2012
My 11 year old son has Aspergers. He doesn't have a violent bone in his body. In fact, he is the opposite. He cares about everything! God bless you , Timmy. You do not have a disability, you have a gift.